The Secret About Relationships

Have you ever found that being around family during the holidays can be a little challenging?

I want to set you up to have an amazing holiday season.

Merry.

Bright.

Thankful.

All the things.

But there are some fibs about relationships that keep us focusing in the wrong direction for change.

One fib is that the other person helps decide what the relationship is like by what they do, say, or think.

When we believe that we will put our best efforts into changing what they do, say, or think.

That usually ends with frustration, anxiety, and overwhelm.

NOT what we want during the holidays...

Or ever, really.

Here is the first in a series of relationship videos to help get you through to Christmas in a way that feels so much more like a calm cup of cocoa and less like the 12 car pileup on the freeway.