If they are not interested in changing then how do you change a relationship?
A relationship is how we see ourselves in relation to others.
It involves our thoughts and our expectations.
We can change those.
But sometimes it is easier said than done.
I've created this video with a six step process to help you with the "how" part that can seem elusive.
Take the time to do these steps.
Think about what it would mean to you and your life to intentionally decide that you will have a good relationship with that other person
Regardless.
Now don't get me wrong....You DO NOT need to tolerate certain behavior.
You can have expectations of what you will tolerate
But you don't need to punish yourself with guilt, resentment, anger, frustration, and all of those other things because someone else did something.
You are so capable of creating the relationship that feels good.
You are worth that work.
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